Your partner has done something unforgivable.

You love him dearly. Your shocked and humiliated

He apologizes and he changes for the better. You still have your doubts.

But you choose to stay with him

If he apologized and changed dramatically, you must forgive. Otherwise, you can’t move forward with him. Relationship will slowly grow distant. You feel jaded and humiliated. You seek someone neutral to talk to. A therapist. This is his reply:

LET IT Go!

He changed for the better with 100 apologies.

You choose to stay

You love him,

Let’s forget everything. Let’s start over.

Remember your starting over

So,

Don’t keep on bringing up the past, it will only hurt both of you. Your punishing yourself.

Don’t use the past on him as a weapon, it grows for distance.You always thought he was your first and last love.

By not forgetting and forgiving shows insecurity on your part. It shows him that you still don’t trust. The relationship will never grow, if you continue to rehash the past.

You realize he’s a good person that made a bad mistake. You forgave him. Life moves on with him happily.

Remember, YOU choose to stay

Always remember that!!!

Regards, Your therapist

Dr Smith M.D.