Is it when he first swats his tiny hand at his mother for not getting what he wants?

Is it when he makes fun of the little girl on the monkey bars for not being very tall and wearing velcro shoes?

Is it when he goes to a party, drinks a lot and tries to get his girlfriend to do stuff with him, of course when she refuses he breaks up with her?

Is it when he lies and cheats in life and with his partner but fakes the potential by promising you things will get better?

Is it when he lays a hand on his daughters for making a mess of his car or new furniture?

Why is it so many of them and why do they do it?

When does a man become a monster?